For my 35th birthday, my dad bought me a drum set. And with it came a lesson on confidence that I didn't even know I needed to learn. But I'm jumping ahead, let me start at the beginning. I have always been different. Since I was a child I had a spirit that I can only imagine my mom would've equally so proud of and yet at times might also drive her crazy. I've always wanted to see and change the world (still do) and as a result, challenge just about every rule. It also made